Church on Tap started like this... It occurred to me one day that the older I get the less true male friendships I have.  I think this is fundamentally true for all men at some point during our journey. The older we get, the more entrenched we become. Little by little, the years pass. We plow ourselves into our families, our business, our routines...and time slips by.   Interestingly, we start to think that we really don't need friends to lean on anymore.  Men live oddly private, quiet lives and …